Change is not what one desires but these are one thing which a individual has to go through to become better version of himself. Change are mostly unavoidable. Its not asked for but it automatically happen without informing you.
You might have heard about 1st law of newtons. a body continues to be in the state of rest or motion until acted upon by some external force. Human tendency is also like that until we get force we don't change. Yeah untill that force acts we continue to be same flow of life continue to destroy our life, ruin it.
Some day or the other this force acts on us forceably and changes us. Some its good other times might be bad but it is inevitable.