Tuesday, 7 March 2017


Few things which we look as difficult is actually very easy when compared to real thing... Have a look..

Easy is to sit at a place speak rash about others.. Difficult is to stand at the same place and speak about yourself.

Easy is to express thoughts and difficult is to understand the expression of own thoughts.
Easy is to say i will control my anger difficult is to do so effortlessly .

Easy is to follow someone work or written handouts, difficult is write these handouts and make others believe on it.

Easy is to die, difficult is to live even when life gives you hundreds of reason no to do so.

Easy is to be successful, difficult is to make every success after being successful appear smaller then previous one.

Easy is leave  , difficult is accept when you clearly know it will leave you..

Easy is to leave idea of revenge, difficult is to be Revengeful yet wait for moment..

Easy is to cry in front of someone , difficult is to hold on tears when your eyes are ready to shed water.

Easy is to hide your pain, difficult be public about the hidden pain to save someone from pain..

Easier is get sad thinking about our own self, difficult is to listen sad story of people with empathy and making them realise a way ahead..

Easy is to say pain i went through was huge difficult is to believe pain which i went through was smaller as compared to person who died as m alive..

Easier is to be sad from inside and still smile.. Difficult is to be extremely happy from inside and still cry in Someone's pain..

Easy is see a someone die, difficult is to swallow the death of our soul.

Easy is to love difficult is to still love after having hundreds of reasons to hate..

Easier is to say life is difficult, difficult is to believe that it can be made easy..

Written by:- KETAN BHARUKA

Monday, 27 February 2017


Bad feelings never comes automatically they are by-product of our thoughts and works.
Bad feeling are due to lack of confidence and self-esteem. These good work enlarges both of these which ultimately make our mind REST IN PEACE... 

Lets try to understand it with example of heaven and hell.. 

Its reflection of what we do, if we take good decision and follow it up with good work. It will give pleasure to our mind. The felling of heaven will arise.. But if we do some unsatisfactory work which  harms, others our mind will automatically  give us feeling of hell..
Mind shows us heaven or hell based on our work. But we all know mind only imagines and whatever mind  imagines are imaginary or doesn't have existence in reality.


 After every wrong think or activity  we do which harms others our mind, our intelligence becomes weaker and energies of mind will get diverged . We loss confidence, this diverse state of mind feeling of hell more pronounced..


Our good feeling  becomes stronger after we do some sort of good work. It also makes us fell confident. When we feel confident our mind reacts positively. This positive state of mind is referred as heaven..


This let us to a fact, ultimately there is  nothing called hell or heaven, it our feeling which we experience, after doing a work. If it relaxing us it heaven  for us but if it make us feel weird or weak we term it as hell..

So what should be done to get rid of bad feelings.. 

Start doing something which will give happiness  to you. Do something which relaxes you. Do something which make your mental state peace . Help other grow. Help people to achieve there dream. Help someone smile. Get rid off there tears. These all will make you feel confident and ultimately relaxation with peace.. (kuch asa kam kro jisse andar se khushi mile). 

The happiness which you will experience after  helping someone or doing a activity to relax you will ultimately get rid of bad feeling.. 

Be happy, spread happiness.. Share it with people whom u think this article will help and comment one of yours happiness seeking moment..


Friday, 17 February 2017


There is nothing called the present. The moment you think about the  present it would have already become the past. Every information takes some time to reach us. It is due to the  space between a receiver of information and a sender of information. After it reaches the  brain, it processes it,It might be mili seconds or even smaller then it. But this also takes time.

So the moment which we refer to as present had already become the past due to the space and time between the object. Lets look at this example. When we see crackers being burst in the sky,  at first we see the  light. The Sound produced  reaches us after a few seconds
Does the sound which reaches our ears really exists or has it  already became the past. Sound was actually produced when the  cracker was bursted  when it reaches our ear it took time due to the space between the object. So we hear the sound after we have seen the light.

This proves that nothing is actually the  present time and everything we look at it  has already become the past. But if we don't stop,  think about  the time we used to work. We give all  our efforts by the unison of body, mind and soul. That would be the present. It means the moment i am writing or you are reading its  the present but even if  for a second you think about it, It becomes i was reading or i have written.

How can we remain in the present?

Only way to remain in present is by doing our work by the unison of our body mind and soul.
We should go in the extreme past  and collect information and use those in the present for the future benefits. Never get stuck in the past nor get blown away by thoughts of  the future. Thinking about both is not going to help. The moment you think about anything it would have already become the past. So what we got to do is concentrate on our work and focus on the present and think about the future.

Improve your quality constantly. 

The work which we are doing now is the present, if its going good then think how to improve it. Go in the past and get ideas of the good work that I have done and use  that to improve it in the future. Repeat the good good work you do again and again. Make those improvements.

Rectify mistakes constantly

If it goes bad go in the past to collect information and find out what mistakes we had made and get ideas of what  is not to be done. After getting those ideas don't repeat it in the future. Automatically you will find a way in which you won't be making mistakes.

So what is to done while working? 

Just work, do nothing else and after the work is done think to yourself about it. Or go in the past to collect information and use that information for benefits of the future..


Thursday, 26 January 2017


Lets start with a story..

A man was very sick.  In sickness, He wasn't eating anything. His wife was very concerned about it. She tried a lot to make her husband eat but wasn't successful.

After a while her husband sensed some smell. He said ,"something nice is cooked in house side by. If u can get me, i want to eat it". Wife was very happy to hear it.

The smell was  of cooked leaves of meethi. This smell of cooked food made a sick person hungry. The house where this food was cooked lived a couple. They were very poor financially, sick person wasn't aware about it. Sick person's Wife went to their neighbors house, knocked at door. Lady opened the door, sick person's wife explain her husband conditions and reason of her being in their house.

The lady said, " you can take it i don't have any problem but i want to say from where we got it. She said we got it from a grave. In a religion after burying dead body, they scatters  leaves of green vegies. We got that leaves. We were without food from three days. If still you want you can take it. We were hungry from 3 days. I don't have any problem if we don't eat for another day."

Sick person wife was shocked and without uttering word went away. She said full story to her husband. Husband uttered in disappointment, " its shame on us, a family was hungry besides us. They had no food from 3 days and we were not aware of it."

He took a decision and said,  " We have some money which we had saved to visit our God's pilgrimage place (here i don't want to mention particular religious or God) . Lets use that money, to buy household items for our neighbors." Wife agreed to husband.

Gradually Years passed they were unable to save any amount to fulfill there wish to visit their God's pilgrimage place. Without fulfillment of this wish husband died.

After death, when his soul was on its way to judgment place, he meet many other souls. They all were talking about visiting God's pilgrimage place. One said i went there 2 times, other said 5, someone said daily. He was sure he will ever get peace as he never  visit GOD'S place.


God gave preference to man who hasn't visited his place even one. This made everyone shocked even some were angry. In this anger one said i visited you daily. Build so many places where you are worshipped. Now, you are giving preference to a person who never did anything for you.

GOD explained , "He never went to my place. He never preached about me. But what he did was beyond all this. HE ENOUGH COMPASSION TO UNDERSTAND PAIN OF A PERSON. HE MADE SOMEONE'S LIFE EASY. HE SHARED. I gave him extra he gave it to a needy. He made his life extraordinary by giving food to hungry person".

I don't give you extra to eat a lot, i don't gave you extra to visit my places. I don't give you extra to ignore people's pain and put it on my name.

I gave you extra to help other. I gave you extra because i saw compassion and empathy in you. I had believe on you that you are capable of sharing. But what you thought, this sharing will leave less for you. I would have give you further i you would have shared. As you never knew i gave you extra for other, not for you.

You all ignored my lesson and followed me. I don't need followers i need leaders. Those  who can take initiative to help people. Share what i gave you. Share each and everything with others in your life. You broke my belief and now you want heaven.

Every human should have compassion. If you have any extra which is worth sharing. Share it without thinking. Share it within your limits but share. It might be food, money,  knowledge or thoughts.

This is my way of sharing, sharing thoughts through stories.
If you like this story share it among your friends, relatives and family. They might realize importance of sharing. 


Written by- KETAN BHARUKA 

Tuesday, 24 January 2017

Inspirational story 7- MOTHER'S LOVE

Mother’s Love for a Boy

One day Thomas Edison came home and gave a paper to his mother. He told her, “My teacher gave this paper to me and told me to only give it to my mother.” His mother’s eyes were tearful as she read the letter out loud to her child, “Your son is a genius. This school is too small for him and doesn’t have enough good teachers for training him. Please teach him yourself.”

Many years after Edison’s mother had died, Edison had become one of the greatest inventors of the century. One day he was going through the old closet and he found a folded letter which was given to him by his teacher for his mother. He opened it. The message written on the letter was, “Your son is mentally ill. We can not let him attend our school anymore. He is expelled.”

Edison became emotional reading it and then he wrote in his diary, “Thomas Alva Edison was a mentally ill child whose mother turned him into the genius of the century.”

Moral: A Mother’s love and upbringing can help change the destiny of a child.

Do share if you like it.. If you have a story which is worth of sharing with other mail me ketanbharuka16@gmail.com

Monday, 23 January 2017


There is no situation in entire universe which can cause anxiety or stress. Our psychological reaction  to that situation can cause one to experience anxiety or stress..
We have two type of thoughts - 



What can happen when we have negative thoughts?
Though makes our 'subconscious mind' and subconscious mind takes every decision..
If we go on thinking negative our brain would be giving negative signal to our subconscious mind. These negative thoughts which cause our mind to behave different, it weakens our awareness level, releases hormone

CORTISOLCORTISOL is stress hormone which damage our white blood cells which are responsible for body immunity. These WBCs protects our body from foreign organisms. But when WBCs damaged it make us more open to disease without immunity. All these happen as a result of stress. So reduce stress in order to stay fit and fight again world. Stress can only be reduced in we get away from negativity.

When we have positive thoughts our brain release different hormone

DOPAMINEDopamine  helps you to feel mentally alert. This alertness will increase our brains function faster. We can see our problems clearly with solutions.
As we get solution of our problems our we will be happy. This will again release a hormone. This is happiness hormone.

SEROTONINSerotonin is sometimes called the happiness hormone. It regulates the mood, prevents depression and makes you feel happy.


This shows every situation triggers a reaction inside a brain. But its the way we perceive a situation is actually what controls the brain. So control of brain lies in your hand. THINK POSITIVE. 


If you see positive side you have good reaction triggered else you will harm your body with negative thoughts. Give up negative thoughts, reduce stress level. Get fit. THINK POSITIVE
You are d own creator of your thoughts you are creator of your own reality..

If u like it share it. With your friends, relatives. There might help be someone who need this. 


Saturday, 21 January 2017

INSPIRATIONAL STORY 6 :- Looking at Mirror

One day all the employees reached the office and they saw a big advice on the door on which it was written: “Yesterday the person who has been hindering your growth in this company passed away. We invite you to join the funeral in the room that has been prepared in the gym”.  In the beginning, they all got sad for the death of one of their colleagues, but after a while they started getting curious to know who was that man who hindered the growth of his colleagues and the company itself.

The excitement in the gym was such that security agents were ordered to control the crowd within the room. The more people reached the coffin, the more the excitement heated up. Everyone thought: “Who is this guy who was hindering my progress? Well, at least he died!” One by one the thrilled employees got closer to the coffin, and when they looked inside it they suddenly became speechless.  They stood nearby the coffin, shocked and in silence, as if someone had touched the deepest part of their soul. There was a mirror inside the coffin: everyone who looked inside it could see himself.

There was also a sign next to the mirror that said: “There is only one person who is capable to set limits to your growth: it is YOU.” You are the only person who can revolutionize your life. You are the only person who can influence your happiness, your realization and your success. You are the only person who can help yourself.  Your life does not change when your boss changes, when your friends change, when your partner changes, when your company changes. Your life changes when YOU change, when you go beyond your limiting beliefs, when you realize that you are the only one responsible for your life. “The most important relationship you can have is the one you have with yourself” .

Moral: The world is like a mirror: it gives back to anyone the reflection of the thoughts in which one has strongly believed. The world and your reality are like mirrors lying in a coffin, which show to any individual the death of his divine capability to imagine and create his happiness and his success. It’s the way you face Life that makes the difference.

Tuesday, 10 January 2017


A Very Special Bank Account:
Imagine you had a bank account that deposited $86,400 each morning. The account carries over no balance from day to day, allows you to keep no cash balance, and every evening cancels whatever part of the amount you had failed to use during the day. What would you do? Draw out every dollar each day!

We all have such a bank. Its name is Time. Every morning, it credits you with 86,400 seconds. Every night it writes off, as lost, whatever time you have failed to use wisely. It carries over no balance from day to day. It allows no overdraft so you can’t borrow against yourself or use more time than you have. Each day, the account starts fresh. Each night, it destroys an unused time. If you fail to use the day’s deposits, it’s your loss and you can’t appeal to get it back.

In same way if you loss 2017 u wont get it again. 2017 is just for you each and every second in this year is for you. Each and every moment of this year is for you. This is your time to make it big. This is the time for which you were waiting for from years. This is the year which is going to be better then any other year which you have thought of.

A year of past, which you are currently thinking as a best year of your life. Believe me this year has capability, to make you capable enough to build 2017 as your best year. In future you might get a years better then 2017 but that also will be because of this 2017. This year has everything what one desires from it. It has 365 days, each day has 24 hour, each hour has 60 minutes, each minutes has 60 second and every second of this is of yours. You need give your best effort. Maximize, your energy to make that small second count in your life.

What every you ever thought you are best at. Use all you effort and energies to increase your efficiency in the work which you think you are best at... DO THIS FOR ALL THOSE SECONDS. ALL THOSE MINUTES. ALL HOURS ALL DAY.. THROUGH OUT THIS YEAR. Believe yourself it will change your life. You can make each and every second count by making to put you best effort in that moment. If you do so, Can anyone in this world take this time away from you. Can anyone on this planet earth can take your success away from you.

If u give ur best in each and every moment after that also Do you think this year won't be yours.

It can't be. It will be yours. So what are you waiting for, start doing what you want to do. Start thinking what you want to be. Start practicing for what you have been living for. Start it now. Your time has already begun, if you waste any moment this time is not going to wait for you. No one ever can buy you your time. Even if we put, the wealth of the world kept on one side, still it can't bring you the this "time"  back. No one can give you your 2017.

But There is only one person who can take it away from you. He lies between you and your 2017. Its non other than your believe. Make your believe strong. Start believing this year this moment this work (whatever work you are doing)  is mine. Start respecting what you doing. Start believe what you are doing no one else in this planet earth can do who will stop you from reaching your goals. No one can stop you. You would be UNSTOPPABLE..
This was all i said to myself on eve of 2016

I thought this is worth a share. I should it share with everyone. These line were mine. But now it time is yours. You should make this lines as yours.. Now its time to read these line for yourself. You are owner of this line now.. Read it again. Read it till you can feel these line. Read it till you can feel you dreams. Read it till you can believe on you dream. The moment you start to believe on your dream everything will itself come in its place as a solved puzzle .
Be inspired . Be active. Be aware. Be 2017's HERO..

Monday, 9 January 2017


Origins of some of our strange customs...

1. WHY:
Why do men’s clothes have buttons on the right while women’s clothes have buttons on the left?
When buttons were invented, they were very expensive and worn primarily by the rich. Since most people are right-handed, it is easier to push buttons on the right through holes on the left. Because wealthy women were dressed by maids, dressmakers put the buttons on the maid’s right! And that’s where women’s buttons have remained since.

2. WHY:
Why do ships and aircraft use ‘mayday’ as their call for help?
This comes from the French word _m’aidez_ – meaning, ‘help me’ – and is pronounced, approximately, ‘mayday.’

3. WHY:
Why are zero scores in tennis called ‘love’?
In France, where tennis became popular, the round zero on the scoreboard looked like an egg and was called ‘l’oeuf,’ which is French for ‘the egg.’ When tennis was introduced in the US, Americans (naturally), mispronounced it ‘love.’ And then the word stuck on.

4. WHY:
Why do X’s at the end of a letter signify kisses?
In the Middle Ages, when many people were unable to read or write, documents were often signed using an X. Kissing the X represented an oath to fulfill obligations specified in the document. The X and the kiss eventually became synonymous.

5. WHY:
Why is shifting responsibility to someone else called ‘passing the buck’?
In card games, it was once customary to pass an item, called a buck, from player to player to indicate whose turn it was to deal. If a player did not wish to assume the responsibility of dealing, he would ‘pass the buck’ to the next player.

6. WHY:
Why do people clink their glasses before drinking a toast?
In earlier times it used to be common for someone to try to kill an enemy by offering him a poisoned drink. To prove to a guest that a drink was safe, it became customary for a guest to pour a small amount of his drink into the glass of the host. Both men would drink it simultaneously. When a guest trusted his host, he would only touch or clink the host’s glass with his own.

7. WHY:
Why are people in the public eye said to be ‘in the limelight’?
Invented in 1825, limelight was used in lighthouses and theatres by burning a cylinder of lime which produced a brilliant light. In the theatre, a performer ‘in the limelight’ was the centre of attention.

8. WHY:
Why is someone who is feeling great ‘on cloud nine’?
Types of clouds are numbered according to the altitudes they attain, with nine being the highest cloud. If someone is said to be on cloud nine, that person is floating well above worldly cares.

9. WHY:
In golf, where did the term ‘Caddie’ come from?
When Mary, Queen of Scots, went to France as a young girl, Louis, King of France, learned that she loved the Scots game ‘golf.’ He had the first course outside of Scotland built for her enjoyment. To make sure she was properly chaperoned (and guarded) while she played, Louis hired cadets from a military school to accompany her. Mary liked this a lot and when she returned to Scotland (not a very good idea in the long run), she took the practice with her. In French, the word cadet is pronounced ‘ca-day’ and the Scots changed it into caddie.

10. WHY:
Why are many coin collection jar banks shaped like pigs?
Long ago, dishes and cookware in Europe were made of dense orange clay called ‘pygg’. When people saved coins in jars made of this clay, the jars became known as ‘pygg banks.’ When an English potter misunderstood the word, he made a container that resembled a pig. And it caught on.
And now you know the origins of some of our strange customs!!!…

Sunday, 8 January 2017

MOLESTATION :- A Revealing Story (PART - 2)

 Its now becoming a tradition to welcome new year with gifts of molestation & harassments. Every day in newspapers, TVs we go throw. When we come across such things, we change channels. We close our the newspapers. We never see cruelty in those. Rather ignore it. We wake up in morning unaware of the fact that night which ended has ended  happiness of many females. It has become sorrows of night for GODS most beautiful creations. 

 Some beast who end there desire of flesh. Night becomes a shelter to them, molestation and humiliation takes the shade of parties and occasions to fulfill there undesired passion. 
Females of non religions are spared, no one sees the religion. They only see flesh, to fulfill there desire, there none fill able stomachs. It’s not last they continue to harm thier dignity. Real shock strikes when peoples gather to make there eyes smooth, touch their soul, relish the right to be free and themselves become strained with the blood of this incident.

We enjoy it , we act as this has nothing to do with us. We don’t fight for those whom we don’t know. We only fight for our family. When someone teases our sister our blood boils as water on gas. We protest. We hit them break there bones even wanna kill them. Don’t we do it? 
Then why we don’t protest when we see someone teasing our friend sister, or any girls. Why our fear does takes over when we see such cases happening in front of us? 
We act as silent spectators when we see some helpless daughter of there fathers, sisters of brothers, brides of brooms,  even mother of small children are harassed. We don’t react as we wait for other to start.   As we are human we repent after everything is over & gone. Is this really human nature? 

We do something more than that’s, we change our direction.We speak of enpowering women’s and stopping crime against them. Do We ever stand to stop it.  Ever took a step against it.  We wait but what has this wait given us. It has given something, Cries of the girl which never leaves us. Repented which digs us into our own grave. This grave and repent will change a day to plight.

The beast or humans, whatever they may be,they don’t realize or ever think. 
 A Girl is princess of a father, Angel of mother, best friend of her brothers and sisters. You want to know what they do due to our disgraceful society.

They  would try her phone number,  time and time again in tension. Mother would be crying  because of not getting her sight for long. Might also be praying to god keep her safe. 
Brother of her, big one would be searching for her. Small one would have been playing but disturbed by the fact her beautiful sister is missing. A Sister of her would be consoling mother while crying. Her father won't be sharing emotions with others but would be cursing the fact, why he let her do job?  Why he let her go alone? So many moving emotions but does these beasts get hurt or even they are not aware of it. They are wasting whole life of her for few moments of there pleasure. They don’t hear her cry, her screams don’t touch their heart. 

These days no. of crimes against women’s are increasing . It happens mostly in those festive days. New years, Christmas, get together, parties, even in religion gatherings. You know what  I am wrong I happen nearly everyday, every night, at your every sight. We dont respect women at home our children learn from it. They don't respect them outside. Learn to respect women at home to teach them how to respect a women.  

If we don't start them respecting women.  It will only change the victim everyday, places also but something that doesn’t change is the crime.  For the sake of religious ceremonies and superstitions women are made to run naked. Our reaction: we smile hide our faces behind bars, tables, chairs like real bustards. Some real balls capture it on cell phone.
 This is respect of women in our society.  Gods has been very kind on all males. He has given us 2 hug useless hands, to hide our face.

When are we going to behave as humans? 
 We don’t accept them becoming sheep’s so, but we blame them becoming the wolves that loves fishes. 

 It’s the high time now. Give it a think. Now are now we going to see the faces of our sisters and mothers in every girl that is harassed? . 

Are we going to lead the fight, rather then being the mere spectator. Irrespective of thinking the no. of peoples are we going to react to all these. 

Believe me, a flint of fire can destroy whole forest. And Burn it. Then just think what a protest of person can do.  We are going to be this flint, we are going to react rather then just be mere thinker and repenting later.  We are not going to die many times before death like a coward covering our faces. The fault has not been in our stars it had been within us. There is no use of being a man until each girl can walk on road without fear in her eyes.
My view: - gay are those males who cant protect a woman and respect a women.
God has given us many opportunities to prove the worth of being a male. Be a male save humanity. We are not going to hide rather say “ITS ME OR NO ONE”. Remember we got to face the odds in our life’s, don’t let bravery die. We got to answer God on the day or reckoning.

 I am sorry to use some words that might hurt your feeling. By no means had I wanted to disrespect a women, I just want to be close to reality. Sometimes incidents are more vigorous then this line written above. It was to make peoples realize what a women go throw when such incidents happen and a boy go through when such incidents takes place in front of his eyes. 

  It also shows effects on a girl and her family. Last line to those boys by ketan bharuka would be….
So I request u stop it, I beg u, because, "its you or no one.."

Saturday, 7 January 2017


Lets start with a fiction..

A child dreams of becoming something very big, famous and rich. He had dreams, on which he believes. Thinks those would be true a day. But as time passes He starts learning words like.. Impossible, difficult, competition, pressure.. Dream becomes hazy with these words. It can also be said, As his mind dictionary grows his dreams becomes narrow.

The people around him start saying what they think is reality. Reality or rather there point of view towards the world.  Children learns everything which he observes. He too perceiving the world from those persons eyes. Those other person who gave up on their dreams say, "its impossible, nothing can't happen '. He starts believe their reality which is.." its impossible, nothing can happen. He gives up on his dreams.

Think for a moment who is this child. This child with lots of dreams but when grows up is without dreams.

Who is this child? 
Each one of us has been thought this emotions. Each one of us has felt this rejection then gave up..  Everyone wanted to be successful, rich and worth when they were small but as grown-ups they start believe people around them and becomes a quitter.
There has to be something wrong with our surrounding.

What is our surrounding doing with us?
Our surrounding is making us believe by saying, "The way in which  you think is impossible to live or be, we have been living in this environment. We have been living in this salary. We haven't achieve it till now. Who on the earth are you to achieve it. If we the society have not been able to achieve it you too will fail so why worth even trying.."
We loss here, we give up, we stop, we surrender,we accept and we become what they wanted us to become rather then what we wanted become.
The negative powers of society takes over us.

How does this negativity effects us?
We all share our thoughts with our friends, family and relatives. When we say  to them like, "i wan to buy a big house, i wan to be the vice president of this company, i want to achieve something big...
Our friends and relatives will think we are joking. And if at all they believe you they will say, " poor guy, you should have learned something from surrounding".

Now repeat this same with President of your company, he will not laugh. He knows this can be achieved. BIG MEN DON'T LAUGH AT BIGGER IDEAS. PERSON LAUGHING HE HIMSELF HAS NOT ACHIEVED IT, SO HE THINGS NO ONE ELSE WOULD BE ABLE TO ACHIEVE. This makes him laugh. These people are negative people with negative attitude and negativity. They are those negators who can snatch you dream from you. They have power to put you from a gold mine to a coal mine.

Its not easy to be around negative people they will make you think something.  These people are master of destructive thinking. So next time when we you meet negators just reverse there think.

Look at this eg,  very simple one, a glass of filled water till half of it length. A person gifted with extreme negative attitude will only see empty portion and will be able to convince everyone with full conviction that glass itself is of no use as it is half empty. Simply, i mean totally negate the portion which is filled. Make you see that in some time you will also believe him and accept this fact.. Use less glass.. But its half filled and remember two half filled glasses makes a full glass of water.

On daily basis we come across to these stuffs of society. They will conditions you in there thoughts. Here you need change the environment .

1) REVERSE WHAT THEY SAY - This will make you look at not empty but filled portion..
So if you actually give it a deep look somewhere those negative person shows us the right way or motivate you. They don't show you, "what to see" but at least they say, "what not to see".

2) YOU CAN ONLY GET EFFECTED IF YOU ARE IN DOUBTS - Now again we come to same place how much positive are you , if you are positive you will take positive thoughts even from those exceptionally determined negative person and wont allow them to effect you in any negative way to demotivate you. You might also manage to make them see positive side of what you doing. Here clarity of whatever you are doing is important. If you are clear no one can stop you. So, POWER LIES IN YOU HAND.

3) ASK QUESTIONS To NEGATORS-  You should start asking questions to those negative people. Why?.. If anyone says its not going to happen, ask them..
Believe me 90% of people will have no answer. This time they WILL BE QUITTING  after your question.. Next time, do ask them.
Now coming to Rest 10%. They will give you answer listen to them carefully. They will say you  problem, which you might face. They will guide you. But remember listen to them VERY CAREFULLY.

4) BE A DEAF -  This is most difficult one of all. But if you are highly inspired to reach you dreams, this is possible. You won't be able hear anyone. Try to give it a practice for some day after it, words of other won't effect path of your success..

A story related to this article 
motivational story - 5..

MOLESTATION :- A Revealing Story (PART - 1)

I have  always been confused how to wish someone on their birthday. I have been doing it rather badly through ages.

  Today also, nothing has changed.  It is  birthday of, our boss. I don’t like to wish anyone, but this time i did it. Neither I go to any birthday parties, but today i am going to do so.  
I thought to get some gift.I was confused in selection. A voice came to help me in the tough job of selecting  gift, but failed miserably and made it more difficult by giving his foolish ideas. “Ketan should we buy cake, the chocolate one, everyone likes it” said Vishal.  Vishal a colleague of mine.

 I said “They call us at birthday parties and ask, Have you got cakes as a present so that we can cut it to celebrate. What nonsense stuffs you say man, as they don’t have cakes in birthday parties, they have it. So why waste money on it.”

After a long discussion which looked like hours,  we settled on  perfume. Which was our first choice and our final one. Why did we wasted time on thinking. I think Men will be men especially when it comes to impressing boss.

 We both sat on bike.  Vishal had eaten half of my brain in gift parlor and  continues to do so,  on bike. Speaking Sincerity , the seriousness of irritation was so much,  I thought he was paid to do it.

We reached the destination. But, I was still in doubt whether to go inside or leave. Though my luck left me and i was in the party. Vishal pulled me inside, as if, it was his birthday rather then someone else's. 

I saw a mirror on way. Consoling myself on looks i entered the garden area where the was about to take party. Whole garden was decorated with lights, cut outs and had lots of food stalls.

Vishal left me as soon as he saw other colleagues and ran with enthusiasm to meet them. I also jointed. Greeted Gopal Singhania our dear, loveable boss (don't go on word).  Then decided to take a corner sit against a wall. I had soft drinks in my hand.  Something was fishy. They all were taking about a beauty. I could also see her, though I was far.

   PART 1
I had thought of stopping but I became  part.  Never thought that one night of pleasure could end a beauty and deprive the word of such a excellent creation. The excitement, accompanied with the force turned youth into a beast.

This is what happened in the night of the birthday party of our boss, we gathered, we all were normal human beings. Untill that moments arrived which charged our bodies. We all became that we never dreamed of i.e. a beast of flesh and beauty.

  All was going very well till the tables were set and that innocent beauty was made to sit in front of us. Standing meters away, or shall I say whiskers away. I was so indulged in her beauty which made space between us out of thoughts. Her curved body, her golden hair, her blue round eyes spoke a pacified everyone. It had some effects on my body; the layer of her beauty was untouched. I was feeling her virginity. The sweatness of her felt like smells of vanilla essence, it was watering mouths of my colleagues especially, the boss. 

 I could see, some were going near her to get those fragrance of perfume . She felt so fresh, as if she was new to this world, seeing her hearth, waves ran around. I could bet on she was the most prettiest. She was dressed in the best way possible. Everything she was wearing made her more beautiful. The red veil of her which was kissing her hearth. She didn’t knew, it’s a crime to be beautiful when boys like beast are around. 

Who knew she would become a prey. She was going to be punished for being beautiful. I was shell shock, thinking can she survive even for few min in this hell where men were dyeing to have pleasure.

I still remembered it was around nine the lights went off. It was now time for beast to attack her.
One of the beast took some steps towards her with fast breaths and heart beats. His intention was quite clear, he wanted to engulf her and feel the pleasure. Passion level roused. Every eye was glittered with intensity, though I closed mine. I was very afraid for her but could not speak for her. The beast reached her. I was glaring at boss. He was enjoying all these.

 The beast put the barricade around her, so that she was confined to a specific place, she was afraid.  Before anything could strike me she was surrounded by all in a round circle. She was alone facing all. I was standing besides the table looking to her. 

Boss the was first one to take advantage of her; the stripped the red vile from her attire, all was enjoying. I was still standing near table cant hold my breath I was thinking of yawing but I moved a little back in fear. I could not bear but have to bear all these as l lost all power to stop them. Her shriek or yell wasn’t heard. She was screaming but they went on with there job of making her silent forever. Yeah she was made silent by placing a knife over her.
Next what happened is indescribable, inexpressible, and unbearable. Attires of her were removed by knife not before the moment reach which was enough to make eyes pop out of shocket.

Her body was an art. An art, which was on verge of end. I was still looking from backyards. Some times hiding my face, closing my eyes, turning away. Everyone Enjoys romantic relationship, but like this only a beast can, not a human.

Did anyone bothers no, no one did. I wanted to protest, it was raising high on my mind. Some bravery came from behind and hugged me but my i was coward deep underneath . I stopped in mid way to protest it as they were 7 and I alone. So I decided to take a view, without interrupting there pleasure fill moments. 

Her beautiful body was hitting me, a beast just then sided his hand on her soft curves. He was cutting the slices of  her dignity & a relishing it, he motivated others even to do same. Even bit to me also but I controlled it. Few moments later her body was flying in air, some throwing her, some kissing her others leaved marks on her face and body. Oh! This cruelty I never felt so helpless, I was feeling pathetic but yet suppressed.

I was still thinking of her blue eyes and red lines; I saw her innocence, modesty and simplicity in those eyes. But now those were full of grief yet no one saw it. They were busy watching something else. She pleaded but those were never heard as she was brushed on face of new beast every second. She was beautiful so all wanted her, rubbing down on the bodies, forcing over lips of every beast present over there, “I was exception as I am a human” I said. But am I seriously a human or a beast.

They played with her beauty, with her modesty, ended her virginity and still on way of destroying her. Yet no one complained. How cheap peoples are. Then I realized I myself didn’t complained rather decided to be silent spectator.

The conflicts continued this time it was with no one else but with my inner self. How could I have protested “when everyone there was the part of the injustice”. But I had to survive, I had no option. So I gave all thoughts of fight inside me. 

One of those beast, vishal came to me. I moved back a little, but he forced me. This time it on her. At last forgetting everything what was going in my mind moments ago. I held her high hi-fied all & bidden my first kiss on her which turn out to be the final of many series kisses. 

I was astonished as moments ago she was here  in front of me but now what lefts behind its dreams of her. I will have dreams of her entire life as such creations are not made every day. She took her last breath in my hands; with my kiss she was silent for ever. 

There was not a single shriek of regret rather joyous applauses. Not a single trace of her cream body could be located anywhere. She was in silent of death mixing with the voice of satisfaction. I broke down tears rolled from both eyes, dreaming of tears in beautiful bullish eyes of her. Those tears would never forgive me for it.  This feeling made me to submerged my face in hand , hide my feelings due to rage of these mobs, I too became part of dignity slicing. Many of us standing besides the table would have felt shame. We all waited for others to start. 

 I was blown away by thought if I have dared other would have helped surly. I could not gather courage to be the leader. If I would have done so I would have save the beauty. My fear got better of mine and I loosed her forever. I realized none other like her would be created ever, she was my queen. I might have got her if I would have managed to save her virginity, dignity, modesty. When everybody was rubbing her on gopal’s so called ugly face, then on there lips and bodies. I just watched end of the beauty by a night’s pleasure. The beautiful gorgeous shiny creamy soft birthday cake was finished as I watched.

 U read it right. U can read it again if u wants. It was a cake which I was taking about. This time I was taking about a birthday cake, which acts as a replica of many incidents in present world. How many times such incidents happen in reality in our daily life?

MOLESTATION :- A Revealing Story (PART - 2) 

Thursday, 5 January 2017

Inspirational story 5 - Who Are You Listening ?

Once upon a time, there was an ambitious group of frogs who competing a climbing competition. The goal was to reach the top of a peak of tree. A huge crowd of frogs had gathered around the tree to watch the race and cheer the contestants. The race began.
The frogs in crowd could not believe that the tiniest frog contestant would ever reach the top of the really big tree.  After all, it was a really big tree. The crowd grew and they were yelling,

“Oh, that is WAY too difficult!!’

“They will NEVER make it to the top.”

“Not a chance that they will succeed. The tree is too high!”

One by one, the all frogs began collapsing, falling from the tree.  Except for few , who were in tempo, climbed higher and higher.  But the crowd continued to yell,
“It is too difficult!!! No one will make it!”

Many frogs got tired and gave up. The tiniest frog continued climb higher and higher and higher. It appeared that this one little frog wouldn’t give up!

All of the other frogs had already given up climbing the really big tree, except for the one tiny frog who continued to climb.  After his amazing effort, he reached the the very top of the very tall tree! Of course, all of the other tiny frogs wondered how this one tiny frog managed to make it to the top when so many others had given up.

A fellow contestant asked the tiny frog how he had found the strength to succeed and reach the goal?

It turned out that the winner was DEAF!

Moral : Never listen to other people’s tendencies to be negative or pessimistic.  Don’t give permission to others take your most wonderful dreams away from you.  Believe in yourself and be just like that tiny frog who didn’t listen and you just might make it to the top!
Winners never pay attention to what other people’s opinions are when it comes to their dreams and goals. Focus on your goal and march in confidence. People who are not playing with you, people who are not helping you reach your destination, will always have opinions and generally – a negative one. Do not pay any attention to them.

Conflicts/Fights - GET RID OFF IT IN LIFE

Lets start with a story then understand the concept..

There was a couple travelling in a bus to their house, situated  near  the himalayas. The roads in the Himalayas are very dangerous and when it comes to driving of our Indian drivers, it makes it even more more dangerous. Usually they are drunk and drive on hazardous roads.


Now this couple had two routes ,say first route and second route , to travel to their home , both of which were usual bus routes. One was a bit longer than the other. So ofcourse they preferred to use the shorter route(the second route).


This time they were returning home from work both were engaged in conversing about the whole day. Wife suddenly said, "Lets get down on the first way and walk till our house". Husband was tired after the days' work but reluctantly agreed to his wife.


They asked the conductor to stop the bus, got down. Wife immediately realized she left something in the bus and went inside to get it. It took about 5 mins for the bus to leave that place..


Suddenly, they heard something falling ,  looking at it the wife was happy and thanking God. They saw that the bus moved ahead a few meters and big boulder fell on it from the mountains. The stone crushed the bus. There was no chance that person could have survived . Wife was still thanking God for saving her life and her husband's life.


On the other hand, when she saw her husband she was shocked. He was crying. He was devastated, dejected, cursed himself. Wife asked, "our lifes are saved , why are you behaving this way, we would have died if i would not have said to get down here".


Husband said " yes you saved our lives, but because of us those people in the bus died. If we wouldn't have stopped the bus over here and if you had not wasted 5 mins which we took to get down. The bus would have passed this place, that stone would not have fallen on the bus. Many life a could have been saved not only ours".


Here wife is correct husband is also correct.


Sometimes we look to think which may be positive from our point of view but it can be very negative in reality. Rather we can say husband is also correct and wife is also correct. Who is wrong then?


Wife understood something from this situation and she expressed it. Husband understood something more from the situation and he expressed it.  The situation which they saw were same but they gave different views which is bound to happen in every situation of life. A selfish person will see his life saved and a selfless person will see others lives saved. Both have their opinion, they are correct in there point of view.


But here comes the trap. The situation  which they saw was same but understand of the situation was very different.  This difference in opinion could be seen at every phase. Here Many times situations are not so easy to understand . In those situations if, WIFE REJECTS THE OPINION OF HER HUSBAND AND SAYS I M CORRECT AND HUSBAND REJECTS HIS WIFE SAYING HE IS CORRECT.. THIS WILL GIVE RISE TO CONFLICTS IN THEIR LIFE.


Everytime, when there is a conflict in relationships ,  same thing happens ,  both are correct but we never pay emphasis upon  the point of view of other. If we start to look at things from others perspective there would be no fight. It will make us understand  the second person is equally right as the first person .



We enforce our view on others, we force our understanding on others, we don't let the other person express. If at all we let them, we don't look into the matter through their eyes. We still enforce our thinking on them.



We need to understand other people's concepts, their view, their perspective. When we do that we will realize we might be right but other one is equally right. When we understand this ,there wont be any reason to fight.


If i am right , you are right then why this fight..

There won't be a fight.. Think..

Written by :- KETAN BHARUKA

Tuesday, 3 January 2017


A rare conversation between Ramkrishna Paramahansa & Swami Vivekananda 
Read it loud to family, it's one of  the best message I have come across...

1. Swami Vivekanand:- I can’t find free time. Life has become hectic.
Ramkrishna Paramahansa:- Activity gets you busy. But productivity gets you free.

2. Swami Vivekanand:- Why has life become complicated now?
Ramkrishna Paramahansa:- Stop analyzing life... It makes it complicated. Just live it.

3. Swami Vivekanand:- Why are we then constantly unhappy?
Ramkrishna Paramahansa:- Worrying has become your habit. That’s why you are not happy.

4. Swami Vivekanand:- Why do good people always suffer?
Ramkrishna Paramahansa:- Diamond cannot be polished without friction. Gold cannot be purified without fire. Good people go through trials, but don’t suffer.
With that experience their life becomes better, not bitter.

5. Swami Vivekanand:- You mean to say such experience is useful?
Ramkrishna Paramahansa:- Yes. In every term, Experience is a hard teacher. She gives the test first and the lessons later.

6. Swami Vivekanand:- Because of so many problems, we don’t know where we are heading…
Ramkrishna Paramahansa:- If you look outside you will not know where you are heading. Look inside. Eyes provide sight. Heart provides the way.

7. Swami Vivekanand:- Does failure hurt more than moving in the right direction?
Ramkrishna Paramahansa:- Success is a measure as decided by others. Satisfaction is a measure as decided by you.

8. Swami Vivekanand:- In tough times, how do you stay motivated?
Ramkrishna Paramahansa:- Always look at how far you have come rather than how far you have to go. Always count your blessing, not what you are missing.

9. Swami Vivekanand:- What surprises you about people?
Ramkrishna Paramahansa:- When they suffer they ask, "why me?" When they prosper, they never ask "Why me?"

10. Swami Vivekanand:- How can I get the best out of life?
Ramkrishna Paramahansa:- Face your past without regret. Handle your present with confidence. Prepare for the future without fear.

11. Swami Vivekanand:- One last question. Sometimes I feel my prayers are not answered.
Ramkrishna Paramahansa:- There are no unanswered prayers. Keep the faith and drop the fear. Life is a mystery to solve, not a problem to resolve. Trust me. Life is wonderful if you know how to live.

Stay Happy Always!


Long ago, a man was walking in the forest, who was astonished by seeing an elephant along with trainer. He just wondered, by the fact of these big creatures of the earth were being held by a small rope tied in their back legs. And there are no chains as well as no cages to tie or hold them. The giant animal can break the rope anytime, but they did not just for some reasons.

He asked the trainer nearby the elephant, “why these beautiful and magnificent animals stood as such and did not made any try to get away from the rope.” The trainer replied with a smile that “when these elephants at their younger age, we often use this type of small rope to tie their legs as they strength is lesser than now.“

Similarly when they grow up, they believe that they cannot break away the ropes anytime, and he added they still believe the rope is stronger enough to hold them, so they never try for it.

The man was really surprised and amazed on hearing the words of the trainer. The elephants can break their bonds and set free but they did not, just because they thought they could not break it and stuck there still.

Like these animals, many of us go through our life hanging onto a belief that we cannot do something, the simple fact is why because we failed at it once before in our past?

How many of us are being held back by old, outdated beliefs that no longer serve us? 
How many of us have avoided trying something new because of a limiting belief ? 
How many of us being held back by someone else’s limiting beliefs?

Lessons Learnt :

Whatever you can conceive and believe, you can achieve! Choose not to accept the false boundaries and limitations created by the past.

Failure is a part of learning. We should never give up the struggle in life. You Fail not because you are destined to fail, but because there are lessons which you need to learn as you move on with your life.

I am going to share some motivational / inspiring stories from big collection. This was shared by one of my friends. If any you also want to share some stories of motivation from ur life or something what brought changes in your life. Share it with me if i like them i will post them with you identity. Will try to share as many as possible may be 2-3 a week so start sharing.. Email id- ketanbharuka16@gmail.com 

Sunday, 1 January 2017


Lets try to understand life and opportunities from 0's (zero) and 1's (ones).
After taking a look of these numbers, first thought which comes to our mind is, they are binary number. Today i am going to explain something through these numbers which is much different from binary concept. This concept, if understood properly might change, the way you think about life..

Lets start with a question. Which one you think,  from these has higher value 0 or 1...
Now when i focus on numerical value,then the answer would definitely be 1. But when i say actual value the answer would be zero. How does this different took place and it effects our life. Let us discuss with some examples.

Firstly lets take one.. Lets me put 1 with another number what would be i getting in return. Eg 10 multiply by 1, 10 divided by 1 what we get.. We get the number itself. This is theory now let us take some practical examples..

A person with his value as 1 get in a company. What he will return to that company?  We know the value of 1 and what it returns, it will exactly return the same value or in other words add nothing to company's growth. It also means he is not giving company any better results expected of him. Does any company wants a person to be with them who doesn't have any add on value to company?

Don't you think a company hired a aspirant to increase the company's business rather then getting the same value? So in this condition the person whose value is one would be rejected as he doesn't prove to a different but becomes one of those who has no value for the company.

Now let start discuss about number zero.. If we multiple it, it make the whole value zero but if we divide zero with anything the result is infinite.. Zero never returns us same value whereas earlier  we saw 1  return us same value as earlier. This is enough to prove zero act as game changer or x-factor. Now lets use zero in practically way.

Many people doesn't realize this, they make there value 1 which is of no use ultimate gets rejected. 90% of people do this. From 100 only 10 person understand real value of themselves.  Only understanding of real value of ourselves will not land us on the doors of success, we need to put effort for it..

Here a person has two choice he starts inserting those zero(efforts)  on left side of a number, he goes on increasing the number of zeros (efforts) in left side. Does placing of zeros(effort) on left side will ever effect the overall number. He knows what is important and start give his best effort but does one mistake. He puts all his efforts in wrong direction ultimately gets no results. There were only 10 person in this group from 100 who understood real value. From this 10 person only one person understands the right direction in which efforts will give results. Other 9 person goes on placing zeros in left but that one person starts putting those zeros on right side.. After every zero(effort) in right direction the value  increase not by 1 or 2 times it increases by 10 time.. Every zero in right direction increase value of number by 10 times. He doesn't need to put 100 zeros, only 3 zeros will have him value 1000 times more then the previous one.

This is done by 1 person out of100. It means only 1 person from 100 get success, don't you think we know the name of those 1% success people. Each and every person who is at top of game of life is 1 out of those hundreds. We know some names of those person who are s passes these barriers..
1). Sachin Tendulkar
2). A. R. Rahman
3). Steve Jobs
4). Micheal jordan
5). Nelson Mandela &  many more with
6). You..

Don't you want your name to be written in this list.. Start finding zero, its hiding somewhere inside you..

How to get right directions in life and give our best efforts - this article is all about importance of these things.

Its important now  to know whether, the things on which we are working are correct for us or not and how to let us get ourselves give our best efforts...(stick to it for some time, if desire related to it strong then it is right) ... More to come in my next blog which is going to be about How to recognizing what's right and what's wrong..

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