Tuesday, 7 March 2017
Monday, 27 February 2017
Bad feelings never comes automatically they are by-product of our thoughts and works.
Friday, 17 February 2017
The work which we are doing now is the present, if its going good then think how to improve it. Go in the past and get ideas of the good work that I have done and use that to improve it in the future. Repeat the good good work you do again and again. Make those improvements.
If it goes bad go in the past to collect information and find out what mistakes we had made and get ideas of what is not to be done. After getting those ideas don't repeat it in the future. Automatically you will find a way in which you won't be making mistakes.
Thursday, 26 January 2017
This is my way of sharing, sharing thoughts through stories.
Tuesday, 24 January 2017
Monday, 23 January 2017
There is no situation in entire universe which can cause anxiety or stress. Our psychological reaction to that situation can cause one to experience anxiety or stress..
If we go on thinking negative our brain would be giving negative signal to our subconscious mind. These negative thoughts which cause our mind to behave different, it weakens our awareness level, releases hormone
This shows every situation triggers a reaction inside a brain. But its the way we perceive a situation is actually what controls the brain. So control of brain lies in your hand. THINK POSITIVE.
If you see positive side you have good reaction triggered else you will harm your body with negative thoughts. Give up negative thoughts, reduce stress level. Get fit. THINK POSITIVE
Saturday, 21 January 2017
Tuesday, 10 January 2017
A Very Special Bank Account:
Monday, 9 January 2017
Why do men’s clothes have buttons on the right while women’s clothes have buttons on the left?
When buttons were invented, they were very expensive and worn primarily by the rich. Since most people are right-handed, it is easier to push buttons on the right through holes on the left. Because wealthy women were dressed by maids, dressmakers put the buttons on the maid’s right! And that’s where women’s buttons have remained since.
Why do ships and aircraft use ‘mayday’ as their call for help?
This comes from the French word _m’aidez_ – meaning, ‘help me’ – and is pronounced, approximately, ‘mayday.’
Why are zero scores in tennis called ‘love’?
In France, where tennis became popular, the round zero on the scoreboard looked like an egg and was called ‘l’oeuf,’ which is French for ‘the egg.’ When tennis was introduced in the US, Americans (naturally), mispronounced it ‘love.’ And then the word stuck on.
Why do X’s at the end of a letter signify kisses?
In the Middle Ages, when many people were unable to read or write, documents were often signed using an X. Kissing the X represented an oath to fulfill obligations specified in the document. The X and the kiss eventually became synonymous.
Why is shifting responsibility to someone else called ‘passing the buck’?
In card games, it was once customary to pass an item, called a buck, from player to player to indicate whose turn it was to deal. If a player did not wish to assume the responsibility of dealing, he would ‘pass the buck’ to the next player.
Why do people clink their glasses before drinking a toast?
In earlier times it used to be common for someone to try to kill an enemy by offering him a poisoned drink. To prove to a guest that a drink was safe, it became customary for a guest to pour a small amount of his drink into the glass of the host. Both men would drink it simultaneously. When a guest trusted his host, he would only touch or clink the host’s glass with his own.
Why are people in the public eye said to be ‘in the limelight’?
Invented in 1825, limelight was used in lighthouses and theatres by burning a cylinder of lime which produced a brilliant light. In the theatre, a performer ‘in the limelight’ was the centre of attention.
Why is someone who is feeling great ‘on cloud nine’?
Types of clouds are numbered according to the altitudes they attain, with nine being the highest cloud. If someone is said to be on cloud nine, that person is floating well above worldly cares.
In golf, where did the term ‘Caddie’ come from?
When Mary, Queen of Scots, went to France as a young girl, Louis, King of France, learned that she loved the Scots game ‘golf.’ He had the first course outside of Scotland built for her enjoyment. To make sure she was properly chaperoned (and guarded) while she played, Louis hired cadets from a military school to accompany her. Mary liked this a lot and when she returned to Scotland (not a very good idea in the long run), she took the practice with her. In French, the word cadet is pronounced ‘ca-day’ and the Scots changed it into caddie.
Why are many coin collection jar banks shaped like pigs?
Long ago, dishes and cookware in Europe were made of dense orange clay called ‘pygg’. When people saved coins in jars made of this clay, the jars became known as ‘pygg banks.’ When an English potter misunderstood the word, he made a container that resembled a pig. And it caught on.
Sunday, 8 January 2017
When are we going to behave as humans?
God has given us many opportunities to prove the worth of being a male. Be a male save humanity. We are not going to hide rather say “ITS ME OR NO ONE”. Remember we got to face the odds in our life’s, don’t let bravery die. We got to answer God on the day or reckoning.
Saturday, 7 January 2017
Each one of us has been thought this emotions. Each one of us has felt this rejection then gave up.. Everyone wanted to be successful, rich and worth when they were small but as grown-ups they start believe people around them and becomes a quitter.
Our surrounding is making us believe by saying, "The way in which you think is impossible to live or be, we have been living in this environment. We have been living in this salary. We haven't achieve it till now. Who on the earth are you to achieve it. If we the society have not been able to achieve it you too will fail so why worth even trying.."
We all share our thoughts with our friends, family and relatives. When we say to them like, "i wan to buy a big house, i wan to be the vice president of this company, i want to achieve something big...
So if you actually give it a deep look somewhere those negative person shows us the right way or motivate you. They don't show you, "what to see" but at least they say, "what not to see".
WHY YOU THINK IT WILL NOT ?
WHY YOU THINK I CANNOT DO IT?
motivational story - 5..
I have always been confused how to wish someone on their birthday. I have been doing it rather badly through ages.
I still remembered it was around nine the lights went off. It was now time for beast to attack her.
Thursday, 5 January 2017
Lets start with a story then understand the concept..
There was a couple travelling in a bus to their house, situated near the himalayas. The roads in the Himalayas are very dangerous and when it comes to driving of our Indian drivers, it makes it even more more dangerous. Usually they are drunk and drive on hazardous roads.
Now this couple had two routes ,say first route and second route , to travel to their home , both of which were usual bus routes. One was a bit longer than the other. So ofcourse they preferred to use the shorter route(the second route).
This time they were returning home from work both were engaged in conversing about the whole day. Wife suddenly said, "Lets get down on the first way and walk till our house". Husband was tired after the days' work but reluctantly agreed to his wife.
They asked the conductor to stop the bus, got down. Wife immediately realized she left something in the bus and went inside to get it. It took about 5 mins for the bus to leave that place..
Suddenly, they heard something falling , looking at it the wife was happy and thanking God. They saw that the bus moved ahead a few meters and big boulder fell on it from the mountains. The stone crushed the bus. There was no chance that person could have survived . Wife was still thanking God for saving her life and her husband's life.
On the other hand, when she saw her husband she was shocked. He was crying. He was devastated, dejected, cursed himself. Wife asked, "our lifes are saved , why are you behaving this way, we would have died if i would not have said to get down here".
Husband said " yes you saved our lives, but because of us those people in the bus died. If we wouldn't have stopped the bus over here and if you had not wasted 5 mins which we took to get down. The bus would have passed this place, that stone would not have fallen on the bus. Many life a could have been saved not only ours".
Here wife is correct husband is also correct.
Sometimes we look to think which may be positive from our point of view but it can be very negative in reality. Rather we can say husband is also correct and wife is also correct. Who is wrong then?
Wife understood something from this situation and she expressed it. Husband understood something more from the situation and he expressed it. The situation which they saw were same but they gave different views which is bound to happen in every situation of life. A selfish person will see his life saved and a selfless person will see others lives saved. Both have their opinion, they are correct in there point of view.
But here comes the trap. The situation which they saw was same but understand of the situation was very different. This difference in opinion could be seen at every phase. Here Many times situations are not so easy to understand . In those situations if, WIFE REJECTS THE OPINION OF HER HUSBAND AND SAYS I M CORRECT AND HUSBAND REJECTS HIS WIFE SAYING HE IS CORRECT.. THIS WILL GIVE RISE TO CONFLICTS IN THEIR LIFE.
Everytime, when there is a conflict in relationships , same thing happens , both are correct but we never pay emphasis upon the point of view of other. If we start to look at things from others perspective there would be no fight. It will make us understand the second person is equally right as the first person .
WHAT WE DO?
We enforce our view on others, we force our understanding on others, we don't let the other person express. If at all we let them, we don't look into the matter through their eyes. We still enforce our thinking on them.
WHAT TO DO?
We need to understand other people's concepts, their view, their perspective. When we do that we will realize we might be right but other one is equally right. When we understand this ,there wont be any reason to fight.
If i am right , you are right then why this fight..
There won't be a fight.. Think..
Written by :- KETAN BHARUKA
Edited by :- VINEETH ABRAHAM
Tuesday, 3 January 2017
Read it loud to family, it's one of the best message I have come across...
Ramkrishna Paramahansa:- Activity gets you busy. But productivity gets you free.
Ramkrishna Paramahansa:- Stop analyzing life... It makes it complicated. Just live it.
Ramkrishna Paramahansa:- Worrying has become your habit. That’s why you are not happy.
Ramkrishna Paramahansa:- Diamond cannot be polished without friction. Gold cannot be purified without fire. Good people go through trials, but don’t suffer.
With that experience their life becomes better, not bitter.
Ramkrishna Paramahansa:- Yes. In every term, Experience is a hard teacher. She gives the test first and the lessons later.
Ramkrishna Paramahansa:- If you look outside you will not know where you are heading. Look inside. Eyes provide sight. Heart provides the way.
Ramkrishna Paramahansa:- Success is a measure as decided by others. Satisfaction is a measure as decided by you.
Ramkrishna Paramahansa:- Always look at how far you have come rather than how far you have to go. Always count your blessing, not what you are missing.
Ramkrishna Paramahansa:- When they suffer they ask, "why me?" When they prosper, they never ask "Why me?"
Ramkrishna Paramahansa:- Face your past without regret. Handle your present with confidence. Prepare for the future without fear.
Ramkrishna Paramahansa:- There are no unanswered prayers. Keep the faith and drop the fear. Life is a mystery to solve, not a problem to resolve. Trust me. Life is wonderful if you know how to live.
Whatever you can conceive and believe, you can achieve! Choose not to accept the false boundaries and limitations created by the past.
Failure is a part of learning. We should never give up the struggle in life. You Fail not because you are destined to fail, but because there are lessons which you need to learn as you move on with your life.
Sunday, 1 January 2017
Lets try to understand life and opportunities from 0's (zero) and 1's (ones).
After taking a look of these numbers, first thought which comes to our mind is, they are binary number. Today i am going to explain something through these numbers which is much different from binary concept. This concept, if understood properly might change, the way you think about life..
Lets start with a question. Which one you think, from these has higher value 0 or 1...
Now when i focus on numerical value,then the answer would definitely be 1. But when i say actual value the answer would be zero. How does this different took place and it effects our life. Let us discuss with some examples.
Firstly lets take one.. Lets me put 1 with another number what would be i getting in return. Eg 10 multiply by 1, 10 divided by 1 what we get.. We get the number itself. This is theory now let us take some practical examples..
A person with his value as 1 get in a company. What he will return to that company? We know the value of 1 and what it returns, it will exactly return the same value or in other words add nothing to company's growth. It also means he is not giving company any better results expected of him. Does any company wants a person to be with them who doesn't have any add on value to company?
Don't you think a company hired a aspirant to increase the company's business rather then getting the same value? So in this condition the person whose value is one would be rejected as he doesn't prove to a different but becomes one of those who has no value for the company.
Now let start discuss about number zero.. If we multiple it, it make the whole value zero but if we divide zero with anything the result is infinite.. Zero never returns us same value whereas earlier we saw 1 return us same value as earlier. This is enough to prove zero act as game changer or x-factor. Now lets use zero in practically way.
Many people doesn't realize this, they make there value 1 which is of no use ultimate gets rejected. 90% of people do this. From 100 only 10 person understand real value of themselves. Only understanding of real value of ourselves will not land us on the doors of success, we need to put effort for it..
Here a person has two choice he starts inserting those zero(efforts) on left side of a number, he goes on increasing the number of zeros (efforts) in left side. Does placing of zeros(effort) on left side will ever effect the overall number. He knows what is important and start give his best effort but does one mistake. He puts all his efforts in wrong direction ultimately gets no results. There were only 10 person in this group from 100 who understood real value. From this 10 person only one person understands the right direction in which efforts will give results. Other 9 person goes on placing zeros in left but that one person starts putting those zeros on right side.. After every zero(effort) in right direction the value increase not by 1 or 2 times it increases by 10 time.. Every zero in right direction increase value of number by 10 times. He doesn't need to put 100 zeros, only 3 zeros will have him value 1000 times more then the previous one.
This is done by 1 person out of100. It means only 1 person from 100 get success, don't you think we know the name of those 1% success people. Each and every person who is at top of game of life is 1 out of those hundreds. We know some names of those person who are s passes these barriers..
1). Sachin Tendulkar
2). A. R. Rahman
3). Steve Jobs
4). Micheal jordan
5). Nelson Mandela & many more with
Don't you want your name to be written in this list.. Start finding zero, its hiding somewhere inside you..
How to get right directions in life and give our best efforts - this article is all about importance of these things.
Its important now to know whether, the things on which we are working are correct for us or not and how to let us get ourselves give our best efforts...(stick to it for some time, if desire related to it strong then it is right) ... More to come in my next blog which is going to be about How to recognizing what's right and what's wrong..
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