Life is like cricket. We all are crickets. We all are players.. Some are good players. Some are very good players. But all are not good players
Now question come why we are not good players as we all play the game of life every day and with experience our skill of playing should rise but it doesn't happen..
Skill of playing doesn't rise only by playing or doing a thing it rises, if we understand the way of doing the thing. We do mistakes but we don't learn from our mistakes rather we try to forget mistakes..
For eg, a cricket player only get over pitched balls he hit them for sixers then after few matches he started received yorkers which gets him out now he has two options. First to start saying that it was fault of ball not his as when he receives over pitched ball he hits them for sixers. Second he will go back to dressing room and say to himself now he needs to learn more about playing bouncers, yorkers. So next time when he receives these balls he can play them without getting out or might even hit them for sixers..
Now imagine situation of person who chooses first option he will always prefer over pitched ball, never will realize his fault that is, he cannot play few balls which are coming in way of him and his dream of becoming a good cricketer.
Can this player ever become a good player he will always wait for a particular ball and get out on other. Will this player ever be successful. Can he ever create the name for himself..
Now imagine second situation, he gets in, practicing ball which has troubled him after a lot of practice he masters it, comes back and plays shots on the ball which got him out last time. He not only play those ball now but will be capable or rather confident enough to hit them out of the ground
What he did in second situation he understood his mistakes , practices , makes himself prefect, goes out there to play again those delivery which were difficult earlier but now he has mastered himself. So now situation is different for him and gets successful in playing those balls.
Don't you thing this will make him a better player?
Don't you think this attitude can even make him best player of the world?
Now he doesn't need to relay on over pitched ball to hit his shots, he has bouncers, yorkers and other difficult balls to score off. There would ultimately a day when he can say BRING ANY BOWLER OF THE WORLD I DON'T FEAR I WILL FACE HIM..
Apply all these in life now, we prefer only a single kind of situations where we can get success from. Life doesn't goes the way we want it situation changes and when this situation changes we blame situations, rather then making ourselves skillful enough, not even realizing our mistakes in those change situations we start blame games.
Can ever we think of being successful in life in this way?
Does life runs the way we want it to run or it will throws balls according to our wish or according to whatever it wishes?
What we should do wait for ball, only those on which we can score of or make ourselves equipped enough to score of any ball life throws?
The thinking which is "making ourselves equipped enough to face any situations" will not only make us better person but also a successful person as we are able to recognize our mistakes and act upon it rather then ignoring it. We ignore our mistakes because we are not able to understand "Doing mistakes is not a crime but not realizing them is a crime and after realizing them not acting upon them is bigger mistakes".
Life is just a game which we got to enjoy it by understanding situation and making ourselves skillful so.. Last few lines..
CHASE UR DREAMS LIKE KOHLI,
WORK FOR THEM AS DRAVID,
KEEP YOUR TRUST AS SOLID ON YOU DREAMS AS SACHIN'S STRAIGHT DRIVE,
PROTECT YOUR DREAMS FROM NEGATIVITY AS RAINA'S FIELDING,
IF SOMEONE HURTS HURTS YOUR DREAMS SMASH HIM LIKE YUVRAJ,
ALWAYS REMEMBER TO GIVE FINISHING TOUCH TO YOUR SKILLS LIKE FINISHING OF M S DHONI...